During your divorce and after did you feel that your children were being alienated from your life? Brainwashed or even programmed?
Did anyone listen to what you had to say or were you told that you were just "sour grapes"
Well you should know that several years ago the "Family" Section of the American Bar did a study that concentrated on children being brainwashed, programmed and alienated from the target parent.
For instance the American Bar found that the parent who was actively brainwashing often rationalized what they were doing - and doing so "in the best interest of the child". Often claiming that they were the parent telling the truth.
The brainwashing parent used what ever means available to punish the target parent - often using the former couples children to deliver the message.
In over 20% of the cases studied religion was used to label the target parent as being "bad".
The Bar discovered that the programmers thinking was irrational.
The list goes on and as the targeted parent you could probably add to what was discovered by the American Bar. Yet the Bar has done little to shed light on the problems associated with one parent alienating another. This despite knowing how to detect and manage the problem in the court system.
One thing that you should do as the targeted parent is document every instance that alienation happens. Keep a journal, get a voice recorder and record what is happening to you. Otherwise it is your word against the brainwasher.
NationalGAL is for "Family" Court and Guardian ad litem reform. We do so by educating parents on how to protect them selves in "Family" Court. Please find us on Facebook or email us at NationalGALalert@gmail.com
Did anyone listen to what you had to say or were you told that you were just "sour grapes"
Well you should know that several years ago the "Family" Section of the American Bar did a study that concentrated on children being brainwashed, programmed and alienated from the target parent.
For instance the American Bar found that the parent who was actively brainwashing often rationalized what they were doing - and doing so "in the best interest of the child". Often claiming that they were the parent telling the truth.
The brainwashing parent used what ever means available to punish the target parent - often using the former couples children to deliver the message.
In over 20% of the cases studied religion was used to label the target parent as being "bad".
The Bar discovered that the programmers thinking was irrational.
The list goes on and as the targeted parent you could probably add to what was discovered by the American Bar. Yet the Bar has done little to shed light on the problems associated with one parent alienating another. This despite knowing how to detect and manage the problem in the court system.
One thing that you should do as the targeted parent is document every instance that alienation happens. Keep a journal, get a voice recorder and record what is happening to you. Otherwise it is your word against the brainwasher.
NationalGAL is for "Family" Court and Guardian ad litem reform. We do so by educating parents on how to protect them selves in "Family" Court. Please find us on Facebook or email us at NationalGALalert@gmail.com
